Today was a far superior type of day in every way to yesterday. Thank the good Lord for that say I! Mind you, having said all that, it wouldn’t have been too difficult to achieve given the levels of misery I experienced yesterday. Despite working out my Celine Dion based plan to financial independence, which I admit was a stroke of genius on my part, it was a bloody terrible day all things considered.
Whenever I moan like this I always hear my mother’s voice in my ear telling me to be grateful and that; ‘starving Africans wouldn’t be so picky,’ type thing. I agree. I am very lucky to have a house, my health, my hairy husband etc. It is hard to think about these things when you’re sleep deprived and head first in the shoe cupboard covered in pooh and being deafened by the burglar alarm however. I’m just not Zen enough to let all these things wash over me. I just end up winded and irritated with gravel in my pants. I expect even a starving African would be quite stressed out by that, even if they had just indulged in a hearty English breakfast with tea and toast.
The other thing I should be grateful for is that miserable, stress filled days are much easier to write about than days where everything went smoothly and things were good. I do feel that it is nice to have a mix of both though, regardless of how interesting my life story would be if it were a Catherine Cookson style melange of unrelenting misery and strife. I thank my lucky stars I’ve never had to go down the pit. I don’t like being underground, it creeps me out too much. I had hysterics when I went down the Blue John Caverns at the age of eleven, and I’ve never been the same since.
Oscar slept most of the night through, much to my joy. Apart from the odd whinge around midnight it was a quiet night dominated by sleep, and not by screaming vomitous children of any age, which was a great relief. I know that I had dreams because when I woke up I distinctly remember thinking; ‘hmmm! That was odd…’ but then promptly forgot them, so you are saved from another few paragraphs of deep Freudian analysis. It is Friday after all.
Jason went out role playing last night and didn’t get in until hideous o’clock. I never heard a thing, which shows how tired I was. Usually I at least hear the front door click, but a troupe of tap dancing bears could have snuggled their way into bed with me last night and I would have been totally oblivious to the lot of them. Jason tells me that he had a very enjoyable, albeit traumatic evening, as he got swallowed by a dragon. He rang me to tell me this this morning from work, as we only grunted at each other on the stairs in the early hours of this morning. Needless to say I wasn’t too stressed about it, given the fact that it was an imaginary dragon, and the most dangerous thing he went near all evening apart from the sharpened end of a pencil was Lee’s manly, but undoubtedly dirty, bathroom.
The kids got up and got dressed relatively efficiently this morning, with only minor detours for questions such as: ‘Mama? What does a filament do?’ (from Tilly) and ‘Mama? Why is Luke in my class so naughty?’ (from Tallulah). The answer, luckily for the sake of speed and economy, was: ‘I don’t really know.’ to both of them. Oscar seemed much cheerier this morning because, a) he actually slept instead of shrieking the house down all night, and b) I had the time to cut him some fresh pineapple this morning. A full belly makes a happy boy. Apparently, in the world of small boys, pineapples are the new black, or in Oscar’s case, the new bananas.
We got out the door without setting off any alarms and with all necessary articles. We got to school without any dog pooh related escapades. I say this because Tallulah stepped in a big lump of it last night on the way back from having her hair cut, despite me pointing it out and showing her a path to avoid it. I am certain she did it on purpose just to see what it felt like. She had that; ‘I don’t care what you say,’ gleam in her eye. I have told her that if she does this again I will make her take her shoes and socks off and walk through it barefoot so that she can fully appreciate it. It will be vile, but it will be worth it. Sometimes we have to push through the boundaries of acceptable behaviour to get our own way, and if our own way means me not having to spend forty minutes in a howling gale on the back door step picking lumps of pooh out of the bottom of a shoe, I’m all for it.
I spent my morning making notes and an essay plan for my final course essay. I did a lot of internet research on Chris Ofili, because books on him are few and far between, which is probably why they picked his work for us to write about, and save on plagiarism charges. I have come to the conclusion that although I dislike both the paintings we have been studying, he is actually quite cool and has done some stuff that is really rather spectacular and beautiful. There is one piece in particular which he did as an installation for the Tate with another bloke, which has thirteen giant paintings of rhesus monkeys as a kind of parodic Last Supper, which I think is amazing. Another one for my Amazon wish list, when I get to be a blingtastic millionaire art collector, next week probably.
In the mean time I am left struggling with a canvas full of dung and large afros, and not a lot to say about either. At least, not a lot to say that would gain me valuable points in an essay type situation. It’s at times like these when I look back at Burma with a wistful fondness. The problem with Burma was that there was too much to say in too little time. The problem with dung man is that I am struggling to fill a thousand word essay with important artistic tit bits about pooh related art.
There was an artist bloke called Piero Manzoni who used to put his pooh in tins, which were then sold as art. He labelled them as, ‘Merda d’artista’, which means artist’s shit, in Italian, but as we have already discussed a la Opera, sounds much better in Italian than it does in English. He sold a lot of these tins in his very short and alcohol fuelled life (who would have thought he was alcoholic, coming up with an idea like that?), which just shows you how bonkers art has always been. They are now worth £30,000 each, which is a staggering thought.
I have been mulling over the idea of becoming an artist of pooh and vomit, using the kids’ efforts as my raw materials. I thought I might try bronzing them and putting them on sticks, or stringing them together like sausages. I could do both and see which one sells better than the other. It’s an idea. The chemist up the road has just closed, so all I have to do is persuade Jason to buy it for me, so that I can open the first contemporary art gallery in Glenfield. I’m sure it will go down a storm given the fact that the most highbrow shop we have in Glenfield is the Post Office, and the library is the size of my downstairs loo. I own more books than Glenfield library. Mind you, I own more books than most libraries, so that is a bit of an unfair comparison, but you undoubtedly get my point.
My friend Nicky came over at lunch time and saved me from more pooh/art ponderings with a trip to Auntie Ruth’s for lunch. Auntie Ruth’s is a greasy spoon cafe which is just down the road from where I used to live. It doesn’t serve fancy food. It serves proper, trucker style food complete with black pudden’ and fried bread. My mum and I escape there regularly for egg and chips, and that’s exactly what Nicky and I did today. Sausage, egg and chips with double bread and butter, large mugs of tea and treacle sponge with custard for pudding to be precise. It was a heart attack type meal, but on a cold and windswept day in January, it was just what the doctor should order. We felt much better afterwards, although we couldn’t actually move for several moments, and had to be winched free of the table and then booted through the door on our way out.
I have mixed emotions every time I visit Auntie Ruth’s. It used to be a Little Chef when I were a lass (and all this were fields type thing…) and in my teens, my best mate Rachel and I used to work there on weekends and during the holidays. We were, it has to be said, two of the most dreadful waitresses on God’s green earth, and could be relied upon only to balls things up in the most spectacular manner on every occasion. Whenever I go there now I get hideous flashbacks to my time there as an inmate, because they haven’t really changed the decor, and it’s a bit scary. Mind you, I’ll put up with a lot of trauma for a sausage, as we have already established, so I just force myself through the pain.
Some of my highlights as my time as a waitress include:
Tipping a hot pot of tea over a lady’s nether regions on a spectacularly busy Bank Holiday Monday. I compounded this heinous crime by then apologising, which we weren’t supposed to do, in case someone sued us. Not only did I get a kicking from the woman’s husband, I got a bollocking from my boss as well.
Having my bottom pinched by a fat and lecherous old man when I had a tray with brimming teacakes on it occupying both my hands. I threatened to lynch him with a butter knife if he laid a finger on me again. He denied all knowledge and branded me an uppity little tart, and I got a bollocking from my boss.
Charging someone eighteen pounds fifty for two tea cakes and a pot of tea because I didn’t know how to work the till and got into a bit of a tizzy. I got a bollocking from my boss.
Having to make fifty side salads using only a dinner knife because the chef had gone home in a temperamental ‘head chef’ style strop (I think he’d seen it on the telly), and had taken all the sharp knives with him. I squashed so many tomatoes it looked like a slasher movie, and Rachel and I were sent round to his house to beg him to return (only because we knew where he lived, not because we were any good at these kind of hostage situations mind you), because things were getting crucial on the salad front.
Having to help Rachel on the day she was sent to clean the toilets and couldn’t get rid of an extremely vicious pooh which just wouldn’t flush. We were found twenty minutes later by the manager, hysterical with laughter and unable to stand, and naturally given a bollocking because a) we had let the side down, and b) we had not got rid of the pooh of doom. She sent someone else to deal with it, who reappeared victorious and branded us ‘wimps’. The next morning I was on earlies, and when I got there the toilets were closed, as the pooh had crept back up the u-bend in the night and flooded the toilets. A revenge pooh.
It has turned out to be a fairly pooh filled day one way and another. Thankfully only in thought rather than deed, which is good, as I do need a break from bodily functions, particularly those of other people. Luckily everyone is now in bed and Jason is very finicky about such matters, so I’m hoping for a pleasant evening watching the telly. We’ve got several Grand Designs we haven’t seen on Sky Plus and we’re going to indulge in a spot of Jobe’s comforting with our favourite misery guts, Kevin McCloud. We like the fact that Kevin gets turned on by disaster. We think he would fit well into our lives. We have decided to adopt Kevin, along with Stephen Fry. We like Kevin. He’s kind of handy. He’s trilingual, wears funky shirts and knows a lot about building. He’s going to live in my trouser turn ups, because it’s a little known fact that he’s only four inches tall. He should be cheap to keep, and he can label all the tins in my art gallery for me when the day comes…